Thread: Has ryona affected your relationships?

Ahh, reading through this thread makes me feel very lucky that I have a fiancé who's both recklessly kinky and as tough as steel. She's a tough little farm girl. I could hit her with all my might and barely leave a red mark on her. She's pretty much perfect for all my non-lethal ryona needs. Both giving and receiving.

Makes me think of an old joke -- go out with the bad girls... they'll do things the good girls won't.

Originally Posted by keeblerelf

Makes me think of an old joke -- go out with the bad girls... they'll do things the good girls won't.

There's a bit of a problem when women are commonly ladies in the living room and only turn into devils in the bedroom. I can't speak for them, but arguably we have no idea how bad/kinky some women are, many we would never even imagine it until we learn first-hand. I think it was said perfectly above, it's lucky to meet that someone. If you "chase" the bad girls, that's a never-ending run, they won't be looking for you, it's the ones you never suspect that you'll want to be with, because they have control over themselves. Of course, these are just ramblings of one underprivileged guy :)

Originally Posted by noice1

If you "chase" the bad girls, that's a never-ending run, they won't be looking for you, it's the ones you never suspect that you'll want to be with, because they have control over themselves. Of course, these are just ramblings of one underprivileged guy :)

Hmm. Makes me go back to the charisma-domineering theory. That people can literally charm others into willingly and subconsciously change their behavioral patterns. (Because for some reason it is less unlikely that a person would willingly, consciously will themselves to change.)

my gf thinks it's boring and actually would rather watch real porn. But the reason why i like this stuff because it's FANTASY not reality so i don't really mix the two.

Originally Posted by Spider Jones

my gf thinks it's boring and actually would rather watch real porn. But the reason why i like this stuff because it's FANTASY not reality so i don't really mix the two.

I would think a girl wants to put herself into a scenario, and such if she's not into the fetishes, she'd naturally find it uninteresting. I think it also depends on what kind of ryona she's seen. It's not enough to see belly punches, you have to hit the upper limit, too, like vore/guro/rape before you can say you've truly understood the genre. At least she's open-minded enough to tolerate it.

I've read, coming from a girl that most women fantasize (and I emphasize that word) about being raped. On the other hand, It might have been just some attention seeking. I'm not trying to be provokative here or anything :) Anyway, it's not really my thing.

Some of my friends think of me as being just a little be misogynistic . But in all honesty they're just as bad as I am.

Originally Posted by Wired4Weird

I've read, coming from a girl that most women fantasize (and I emphasize that word) about being raped. On the other hand, It might have been just some attention seeking. I'm not trying to be provokative here or anything :) Anyway, it's not really my thing.

I think the thing that turns us on about it is the power taken from us completely, being forced to do things or have them forced upon you, not sure if guys feel the same about that, but i know some do.

Oh yes, my wife did tell me that girls do fantasise about it... if you ever scan the romance novels, there are regular instances of "bodice ripping", clothes being torn off, etc etc. its all part of the make believe. Yes?

i dont have any relationships i'm weird!

Hey, don't feel too bad, mrionay. Like I mentioned in another thread, I'm not actually much of a 'ryona' guy myself (I just have an interest in Japanese subcultures like it), but I'm never really had a relationship either. It's nothing to be ashamed of IMO :)

odd enough my wife knows i go to ryona sites and is fine with it infact she enjoys some of the games i get too :)

Originally Posted by noice1

There is a fine line between fantasy and reality. It's the difference between a far-out "fetish" and having sociopathic tendencies. I like drawings of fantasy girls in ryona situations, I wouldn't want to see most happen to a real female (something like wrestling is an exception).

Personally I too would never want to see a woman ACTUALLY get hurt... but I do fantasize about women I know or am friends with (the attractive ones) being in ryona situations. In fact those tend to be my favorite fantasies. (As a result over the years quite a complex 'storyline' has developed. For me it has to 'make sense' that the woman or women are fighting, and they are always a willing combatant)

Now as for has ryona effected my relationships? I'd say it has to some degree - my wife is well aware of my fetish and is accepting of it. She doesn't understand it really, but she's not judgmental about it. Sometimes she'll play along with it - it has been most satisfying.

Does not affect my relationships more then that I like to get wrestled for fun and when being pulled in my hair (not to hard, just for fun since I have so long hair). Other things like punch, slaps and what not would never be a thing I wanna do IRL. Thats a fantasy. The line is very clear wich makes it not affect my relationships so much I think.

I've never been in a relationship, but my friend and i were talking about fetishes because we were watching this show and a guy came to a pawn shop to sell a latex thing because his girlfriend found out, and told him to sell it or she would leave him. Anyway, my friend said "if the person you are with can't accept you for who you are, then they don't deserve to be with you."
I was really happy that he said that.

Originally Posted by xzxw

I've never been in a relationship, but my friend and i were talking about fetishes because we were watching this show and a guy came to a pawn shop to sell a latex thing because his girlfriend found out, and told him to sell it or she would leave him. Anyway, my friend said "if the person you are with can't accept you for who you are, then they don't deserve to be with you."
I was really happy that he said that.

I'm in the same boat as you. Never dated in my life. I'm just very introverted, though, so it's harder to get into relationships when you barely even speak to anyone, let alone women, right? I agree with your friend's statement wholeheartedly, though. If I ever do meet the right woman, I won't change a thing about myself to please her and I wouldn't expect any different from her.

my relationship is ruining my ryona lol

it's cool though, i'll still love ryona. she understands, but some part of me just wants to stop (like a person quitting cigarettes but not actually because it's killing them)

so sorry guys and gals, but i'm really only coming once a week now to see whats new or to post somestuff...